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  Hi, everybody!

  by thomyorke in

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  i am from russia, and i've ben a jw for a 19 years of my life, since my early childhood.last 5-6 years that i spend my time in the organization, it was only because my family, close friends, and a girlfriend.i've been a pioneer for a 6 years, but my favorite kind of ministry was construction of kingdom halls!

  (because there was a lot of humour, creative young people, young and pretty sisters, etc.

  ;)i still have very good memories about that period...nearly before i finally quit, i was disfellowshipped for a 1 year and 4 months.in that time i 've reed a "crisis of concience" and "in search for christian freedom", and give those book to my mom,she already was inactive, and having a serious doubts.but i was too naive!i decided to comeback into organization- cause of my girlfriend and friends.and remain there as a "double agent" or a spy))i had to pass through all the way to be reinstated...when i 'came back', i had a bad surprise: the elders decided that i need to study some publications again,for my "reabilitation".

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  Pams girl

  Welcome from Wales (UK), glad to have you here with us
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  Why do the Witnesses keep mentioning how many people were at the Memorial at their hall?

  by Iamallcool in

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  Pams girl

  Scully said it
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  Memorial is more important than dying relative!

  by Orphan Annie in

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  my husband is gravely ill sedated and on a ventilator.

  he most likely isn't going to survive.

  we are not disfellowshipped.

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  Pams girl

  I am SO SO sorry to hear about your husband. What a dreadful heartbreaking situation you are in, I feel for you so much. The last memorial I atteneded was in 2009, my mother was in intensive care, dying from scepticeamia. I only lasted an hour, as I got a call to go to the hospital. I should explain that it took everything I had in myself to actually attend the memorial as I suffer with agoraphobia and severe panic attacks.

  She died the next day. I was informally reprimanded for only staying an hour the following week. Suddenly all the loving brothers and sisters dissapeared, I was considered spiritually weak. I HATE it that they robbed me of those moments with my mother. I opened my eyes, and left soon afterwards. They weren't good enough for ME I decided. They are indeed very very selfish people. They put themselves first. How heartless and cruel. They could have gone to a local hall certainly, in any case.

  Be with your husband. Talk to him, tell him you love him and you are there. Put these awful people to the back of your mind, they dont DESERVE you even thinking about them at this time. YOU deserve BETTER. The people who really care about you will always be around for you, so surround yourself with real friends who love you unconditionally, and rely on them for support. Let them continue to play these mind games of imaginary appointments, and give you their pathetic lame excuses for not being around. They may be relatives but they are not your friends.

  Be kind to yourself now. Be with your husband. He is what matters right now, nothing else, especially not them. They are not worthy of you darling lady. Sending you virtual hugs across the wide open seas.....my thoughts are with you.

  Love, Paula......Pams girl x
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  5/15 WT - WT Society Displays Condescending Attitude towards Marriage

  by flipper in

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  as most of us know the wt society has always claimed that it's dissapproved in god's sight to marry a non-jw .

  although they've never made it a disfellowshipping offense, any jw who marries outside the jw organization is looked at as " weak " or lacking " spirituality " and loses certain alleged " privileges " in the congregations.

  they use scriptures in the old testament as support for this.

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  Pams girl

  They will all be interbreeding soon, and turning into mindless zombie drones........oh........wait a minute............
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  Drunk in the sun

  by Pams girl in

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  i had a few vinos...thought id treat myself after painting the shed and doing hours of planting.....now im drunk and talking shite.

  probly should have gotten hubby some cold beers while i was at the shop.....whoops........ sunshine + wine = stupidity.

  i put some prawns on a plastic plate and under the grill to warm for 30 seconds, closed the door and forgot about them.....blue stringly plastic all over my oven.........oh dear...... .

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  OMG you lot are sooo funny! MIND BLOWN, I literally coughed and peed at your "now you see me, now you dont" lol

  You lot of rebrobates lol, hahahahahah!

  NC, gonna check out that thread now......

  My son is NOT amused at his pink school shirts......

  Im drinking BLACKCURRANT POP tomorrow........ and several coffees I suspect.......

  I went to the memorial once a bit drunk.(helped with my anxiety and agoraphobia).....sister snitch said loudly "YOU SMELL........INTERESTING!"

  "Thanks babe!"...said I....... hahahaha
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  Drunk in the sun

  by Pams girl in

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  i had a few vinos...thought id treat myself after painting the shed and doing hours of planting.....now im drunk and talking shite.

  probly should have gotten hubby some cold beers while i was at the shop.....whoops........ sunshine + wine = stupidity.

  i put some prawns on a plastic plate and under the grill to warm for 30 seconds, closed the door and forgot about them.....blue stringly plastic all over my oven.........oh dear...... .

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  ahh PrincessC, you are doing right by your little one. Congratulations by the way x

  Oh Tal, Im in trouble now.......just got all my sons white school shirts out of the wash after an hour at 60deg, (dirty little bugger)....and SOMEHOW I failed to see the red and white tea towel........oh dear!!!!

  Im blaming the SUN going to my head, not the vino......
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  Drunk in the sun

  by Pams girl in

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  i had a few vinos...thought id treat myself after painting the shed and doing hours of planting.....now im drunk and talking shite.

  probly should have gotten hubby some cold beers while i was at the shop.....whoops........ sunshine + wine = stupidity.

  i put some prawns on a plastic plate and under the grill to warm for 30 seconds, closed the door and forgot about them.....blue stringly plastic all over my oven.........oh dear...... .

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  Pams girl

  I had a few vinos...thought id treat myself after painting the shed and doing hours of planting.....now Im drunk and talking shite.

  Probly should have gotten hubby some cold beers while I was at the shop.....whoops.......

  Sunshine + wine = stupidity. I put some prawns on a plastic plate and under the grill to warm for 30 seconds, closed the door and forgot about them.....blue stringly plastic all over my oven.........oh dear.....

  Tell me your drunken stories, I NEED to know!!!
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  History of Witnessing in the UK.

  by Chariklo in

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  when did things really take off for the wt in the uk?

  can anyone help with some research ideas?.

  the proclaimers book gives some ideas, but i'm wondering how quickly it grew.

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  Pams girl

  Chariklo, am excited about finding out what you're up too.....and if I can help, count me in!
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  Will Embracing the Internet lead to Increased Growth for the Watchtower?

  by jwfacts in

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  more important than the reduction in the size of the new magazine is that the watchtower will be actively promoting its website and encouraging people use it to download magazines.

  my concern is that this has the potential to lead to an increase in growth for the watchtower.. the door-to-door preaching work has been one of the most inefficient means imaginable to gain converts, and done little more than tie up the time of active jws.

  now, by directing people to the internet, witnesses can spread their message at an alarming rate for little cost.. do you feel that this has the potential to lead to a surge in growth of jehovah's witnesses?

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  Pams girl

  Im not internet savvy, and was a few months away from baptism when we got a laptop.......

  I typed in Jehovahs Witnesses and found this site! This happy accident lead to my freedom. If the WT goes global on the net, I hope many other "happy accidents" occur. It may be their downfall.
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  Armageddon is coming ... for the WTS

  by mP in

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  is it just me or are we seeing the armageddon or the end of the wts ?

  they seem to be reducing the size and publising of the a!

  mags something that must shock many believers.

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  Pams girl

  I used to wish that the end would come in "this system of things" in my lifetime and I could live forever in Paradise......

  Now I wish the end of the WTBTS would come in my lifetime. Unlikely, but Id sooooo love it